Grief Specialist and Mindset Strategist
Denise Dielwart
In 2009 and at only 52, Denise lost her husband Maarten, and started sinking into a deep pit of anger, depression, loneliness and isolation.Everyone else around her was “getting on” with their lives, and she was lost, lonely and filled with fear of her future, she had no idea how she was going to live the rest of her life alone without him. Denise was 16 when they met, and then married 3 years later, during their 36 together, they were never apart from each other.Denise needed help, she was broken, and didn’t know how to work through her paralysing grief and pain. After trying many methods, such as counselling, attending grief share groups and therapy, none of which worked long term, she realized that if she was to ever be whole again, she had to be the change, it was up to her to create her new normal and joy journey. She had to step out of her grief journey, and to do that she had to re-discover who she was, she had to work on herself from the inside out.Denise completed a 4 year degree in Life Coaching and NLP and went on to further study, Hypnosis, EFT as well as a Human behaviour, initially, to heal herself and her grief.She specialises in Grief as a Grief Specialist and Mentor and Coach.Because of the fast grief relief and healing she experienced, it has become her passion and mission to help widows worldwide who are struggling with grief, afraid of their future, who have financial struggles and who put on their “happy” mask every day, even though they know they are crumbling inside, do exactly the same, Heal their grief fast, so they can live the rest of their life happy, at peace and with joy.Her husband’s death sent her life into a whole new direction. If Maarten had not passed away nothing in her life would have changed. Through his death, he profoundly changed her in so many way, for which she is deeply grateful. Denise devotes her life to helping widows go from heartache to happiness quickly, with less pain, even if they can’t see their road ahead.Denise is the creator of the F.L.O.W method (Feel, Let go, Overcome, Whole) a simple yet powerful coaching tool, she created her transformational online Program Living Beyond Grief and helps widows around the world heal themselves and their grief. Denise also has an annual Widows Healing Retreat specifically for widows to nurture, love and grow themselves.Denise has a private Facebook group for widows only “Widows Living Beyond Grief and Loss” , all at different stages of their grief journey, loving and supporting each other, which quickly grew to over 4300 widows worldwide in less than a year and continues to grow daily.In Denise’s words……. GRIEF DOES NOT HEAL – YOU DO!